Recently retired from the military after a 26 year career, now working in New York city. I'm separated with two grown children and enjoying this new adventure. I'm in search of an intelligent submissive woman who serves because it's who she is, not because she doesn't know better. My dominance is rooted in the emotional bond between my sub and I, with the physical aspects being but an expression of that bond. I'm not into pain for pain sake, but i believe it has it's place in exploring limits and expressing commitment. Interested in finding out more? Shoot me a message.