I am calling you out–Sheep, Lemmings, PC wonks, Noobs, entitled, lazy, irresponsible, children.
A friend of mine– an excellent writer–said it best:
” Furthermore, I will object loudly and exhaustively against all efforts to make BDSM “safe” for “children” who refuse to act in their own agency or take responsibility for their own actions”.—So well said it takes a writer like @Caprizchka
My thoughts on her thoughts—-
Life is not safe, life is not guaranteed, no one is obligated to make your life “easy” no one will pay your bills, defend you from a bully, defend your home from invasion or save you if you do something stupid. Why is BDSM any different? Let me ask you this…….just you and I across the table…….my back will be towards the wall BTW.
Would you leave your doors unlocked? Would you walk alone without protection on a dark night. Would you drive your car on the ice at 50 MPH? Would you then whine when someone or something “bad” happens?
Would you do BDSM with someone with one or 2 years experience? Whom you barely know, because he or she is “the hot flavor of the day”? Would you then whine when someone or something “bad” happens?
Would you set limits, then change those limits –in only your own head –without notice to a top or bottom? Would you then whine when someone or something “bad” happens?
Are you so weak that you will not defend yourself? So entitled that you want someone else to defend you? So timid that you cannot even speak your safe word to your partner or society or to the Dungeon Master or staff? Would you then whine when someone or something “bad” happens?
Do your passive aggressive response include, rumor, innuendo, accusation, mudslinging and character assassination? Would you then whine when someone or something “bad” happens?
Can you look in the mirror without whining about your sad, depressed, entitled life? How downtrodden you are while waiting for “someone else” to help you? Would you then whine when someone or something “bad” happens?
Sadly I see many in front of me every day who can answer yes to any and all of these questions. To all of you I recommend a dose of PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY.
If you chose not to take the medicine then be a good little Sheep, Lemming, PC wonk, Noob, entitled, lazy, irresponsible, child. and shut the fuck up!
“Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it– unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.” ~ Buddha
Submitted by – kievamadrussian