Come To The Dark Side. Top Three Tips!
Come to the Dark Side, Mr. Vanilla … you must be hungry. Can I interest you in a cookie?
I’m curious and have questions for any of you who have gotten into a relationship with somebody who is vanilla/doesn’t know much about/has no experience of BDSM.
My question is; how did you introduce that person to BDSM?
I’m asking this because I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. We have a fantastic sex life, but for me it’s a bit too vanilla. As I’m getting older I’m becoming more into BDSM and want to explore it more with my boyfriend. He knows I’m into it, he says he’s into it too, but the closest we’ve come to it is the odd ass slap during certain positions and a ‘good girl’ thrown in every now and then when I’m doing certain jobs.
Other than saying ‘I really want you to do this to me’ how can I get him to go there?
Here are some ideas I’ve had;
Hide, wait and jump out of the wardrobe wearing a cat suit and gimp mask
Jump over his knee and shout ‘spank me, daddy’
Prod him with a cattle prod
Sex strike (yeah right)
Buy him a sexy horse
P.S – recently my birthday! Birthday spanks and advice, please!