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Cock Worship or a Blowjob what’s the difference

This is written for my fellow cock sluts who have inquired into the technique of Cock Worship. This is not gender neutral. Although it’s not meant to be D/s inclined there are certainly facets of this dynamic expressed in my writing as I use cock worship as a means to deeply connect to the softer side of my femininity.

My caveat is that this is written from the perspective of a primarily heteroflexable girl who likes guys! This is my area of expertise and writing it from any other angle would water it down. FYI: I’m a spiritual being -not religious. I have a dark sense of humor and tend to be a bit blasphemous by nature, so take it with a grain of salt. I’m generously providing some brilliant information so please don’t get caught up on the “god” word. This is meant to be funny as well as educational!

Attitude: a blowjob is something you do for him, cock worship is something you do for YOU. Yes, it’s a gift and offering you give but, you do it cause you love it and you need it. You do it because there is nothing you could want more than to be showered in his masculine essence. Most blowjobs are done either with an agenda, begrudgingly or to appease your guy. Cock Worship is a spiritual practice and you beg for it; you get on your knees and plead, Please Daddy Please! You may not know that you are actually engaging in one of the oldest, female sexual alchemy practices in the world, but you are. Do not underestimate the power of cock worship. When you worship with true devotion, glee and openness you will find yourself tingling with the restorative energy of what is called replenishing the Yin with Yang in Taoism; a not very talked about teaching for women buried deep under masculine, spiritual practices.

Demeanor: Blowjobs are performed without a lot of forethought; they’re just a short-lived sexual act performed for the benefit of another -not a bad thing, cock worship is something you train for. Your demeanor is a combination of submissiveness and raw, sexual hunger; innocence with a splash of dangerous. You really want to return to your adolescence when you worship. Imagine you are a teenager again and let the precocious, little girl in you play. Eye contact is important. Our spirits shine through our eyes so show him with your eyes how much you yearn to please him and how grateful you are to have his cock in your mouth. Be grateful for this opportunity to be in service and bow down to the cock that feeds you. Say thank you! And let him hear your cock song, he loves the sound of your moans, little whimpers and gags.

God Consciousness: When in practice see the man (or men -build up to this) you’re so fervently worshipping as God. How would you suck the cock of the Lord if he incarnated before you? If you have an infinity for Jesus, Shiva, Pan or the Lord of Darkness himself imagine this archetypical, masculine force of nature offering you his godstick and bring him to his knees. “Ooh I’m breaking into a sweat at the thought of a circle of Gods surrounding me as I swoon in rapture!” Hallelujah -Praise the Lord!

Technique: As with all spiritual practice, practice regularly. I never let more than a couple days pass between praising Gods. Skilled cock worshippers produce lots of saliva, have learned to open their throat, enjoy gagging and work magic with their tongues. There are many ways to strengthen your tongue but I suggest you just worship A LOT and in time you’ll notice your tongue will become increasing agile and dexterous. Create and continually expand your cock sucking repertoire. There is no end to learning, so see your worship as an art form and your HOLY service to mankind. You are bringing so much joy to the world you’ll be sure to earn a star or sunny sticker. Combine hand and oral techniques and continually switch between the two. A skilled cock slut will be able to use both hands and her mouth simultaneously with all three doing something different. Remember practice practice practice! Oh, I almost forgot, drooling is a very important aspect to serving. Plus there are lots of health benefits to saliva so don’t smoke, it gives you wrinkles and dry mouth is a cock worshipper’s nightmare. You should include his dragon pearls in your worship as well. Worship the whole package -the shaft, the head and the balls. Some men love their balls tickled and suckled while other guys desire more intensity. Learn to read body language and ask, how does this feel? For a mind-bending worship session stimulate his prostrate gland, again some guys are just not down with this but, I estimate over 60% are so get the lube ready!

Swallow vs. Spurt: This is my opinion, so take it for what’s it worth. Swallowing has its moments and most seasoned fellatrices have surely experienced swallowing as a profound finale but, I usually save my swallows for special occasions; it’s a fact that healthy ejaculate is a beneficial skin rejuvenator for women. Yes, I said for women. For some reason unbeknownst to me, research has proven it doesn’t provide the same extraordinary effects on men. Go figure! Nevertheless, this is something I CRAVE, I want to be bathed in cum -Holy Spunk Serum Extraordinaire! Historically, this was a past time of kinky and smart, aristocratic ladies who kept a bevy of boys on hand! MERCY ME! My skin glows ladies so smear it on your face, neck and breasts and don’t waste the precious godjuice! Let it coagulate for lasting benefits and have your guy read my writing on improving the taste and quality of jizz.

Preparation: You never know when God is going to show up, so have a little cock worship kit handy. A hair tie, lipstick, a little mirror to refreshen your lipstick, baby wipes, oil and a little spritzer bottle will help you feel ready at all times. I don’t know why they don’t sell these at Walgreens in cute, little lunchboxs? I keep a cock worshipping cushion in my car for back ally service.

Addendum: Eventually you may want to have a friend video of yourself in action. It’s your greatest learning tool and it’s so HOT to watch yourself in bliss!

In the pleasure of sacred service,

aka Sacred Slut (Mary)



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